黒人男性との国際結婚を希望される場合には、最初のステップとして、オンライン無料相談をご予約いただく際に、担当者に『黒人男性を希望』あるいは、『黒人男性もオープンにパートナーを探している』旨をお伝えください。

日本人女性と結婚をしたい黒人男性からのお問い合わせは、一定数ございます。ただし、日本人女性で黒人男性との結婚を希望される方々は限定的になりますため、よいご縁があれば、意外と早くマッチします。これまでに結婚が決まった黒人男性の方は、政府関連のお仕事、弁護士、IT関連など、年収の高い男性も多くいらっしゃいます。

黒人男性からのお問い合わせには、『日本人女性は黒人男性をパートナーとして希望するのか？』ということを確認される方々もおられます。以下は、日本人女性と結婚をしたい黒人男性からの問い合わせに対する、TJMの回答になります。(グーグル翻訳はこちらをクリック)

1. Have you been successful at matching Japanese and Black couples in the past?

Yes. We have some Asian Black Couples who got engaged and are happily married.

2. What’s the rough percentage of matches you have made with Japanese and Black couples out of all the matches you have made?

It is about 2%. This is approximate since our matchmaking service is focused on western gentlemen and Japanese women. I hope that more men who have African heritage will be interested in marrying Japanese women.

3. What types of Black men will Japanese women find the most attractive?

Fundamentally, women want to meet men who are sincere. Since we are a matchmaking company, all of our female members’ purpose is “marriage.” So our female members want to meet men who are financially stable and successful in their career in order to take care of their family after getting married. Ethnicities are not as important to our members as having a friendly personality.

4. What tips do you have for Black men who are interested in using your service?

As you may know, Japan is a monoracial society. International couples are not common in Japan, although the numbers of international couples are increasing. Even though black men meet Japanese women and then decide to marry, many of Japanese women give up communication with their black boyfriends since their families cannot accept their daughters’ boyfriends if they have African heritage. Please don’t call it “racism”. It is because some Japanese people are more traditional and they are afraid of accepting something new. We believe that old customs are slowly changing, and one day, Japanese people will be more open minded in the future. Here is a tip for Black men: show your sincerity to her parents, grandparents, siblings, and friends. If they accept you and support you and her relationship, you will be more likely to be accepted by her family.

There are Japanese women who want to specifically meet Black men only. They are not interested in Caucasian or Japanese men. So, if you are a black man and you want to meet Japanese women with the intention of marriage, ask a matchmaker to assist you since they know which women are interested in black men.

I hope this information helps everyone better understand Japanese women.

上記の回答にもございますように、黒人男性限定でパートナーを探している日本人女性もおられます。もし、あなたが黒人男性のパートナーを探していらっしゃるようであれば、いつでも担当マッチメーカーにご相談ください。ニッチなカテゴリーであれば案外早く、すんなりとパートナーが決まることも多いです。

Naoko Matsumoto: CEO and Your Personal Matchmaker

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